The fast thing to remember is-not all ladies and vaginas are alike in their preference.
Learning how to finger a girl requires research and practice.
Fingering a girl into a satisfying climax may seem easy. Anyway, here are some tips to earn that “gold finger”
1.Prepare a head of time
Keep your fingers clean and well trimmed. The vagina is still a delicate organ that ladies go to great length of pamper.
In order to avoid any form of infection or injury to a partner, keep those fingers trimmed, rounded and clean.
2.Have some lube at the ready
For beginners it is safe to have a bottle of lube to ease her with the finger action if you forgot to properly turn her on.
If you are aiming to go all the away to the climatic end, note that some girls achieve orgasms later than others.
Lube is very important since not all girls naturally lubricate generously even in their heightened state.
3.Know how and where she would like to be touched
You can get the best fingering advice from the owner of the vagina. This makes for a good teasing foreplay. Snuggle up close and ask her to guide your hand in a right places.
4.Adopt comfortable position
If you are going for a scenic route of the fingering session, you might as well be in a comfortable position to be able to sustain the stimulation until she cums.
At some point your hands and arms tire out and having to shift position every now and then interrupts the stimulation and ruins the momentum.
5.Turn her on and make her wet
Is a useful trick to make the experience more enjoyable for both.
If she is turned on, she lubricates freely and she responds better to stimulation.
6.Pay attention to her reaction
Watching her reaction tells if a particular movement of your fingers is actually pleasurable or not.
This guides you for which type of fingering technique you need to sustain to be able to bring to her to an orgasm.
7.Keep communication open
It is a good way to monitor your progress.
It can be done simply by asking he if she is enjoying what you are doing with your fingers.
You can also include dirty talks by telling her how you like her response to your stimulation which turns her on further.
8.Know her anatomy
Means knowing which parts that are actually pleasurable for her when touched and what kind of touch is suited for each part i.e. the vaginal canal and the G-spot.
9.Experiment with different finger movement.
For external parts such as clitoris and the labia use light grazing touches.
Light touches to sensitive areas is a good way to turn her on and make her wet.
Also use the middle finger for penetration : Start off with the middle finger when stimulating the G-spot
Using both fingers is recommended for G-spot stimulation as it covers more surface area than one finger alone.
10.Learn to sustain fingering at the right moment
Never stop right at the moment if she is building up for an orgasm. This frustrating for her and probably asks for a longer fingering session than normal.
This is why it is important to pay attention for her reaction. When she is nearly climax, concentrate on the part where she feels the most pleasure until she cums.
