Zuchu Opens Up About Her Strained Relationship with Her Father and Her Mother’s Efforts
Zuchu, the daughter of the iconic Tanzanian Taarab singer Khadija Kopa, recently spoke candidly about her troubled relationship with her father. In a heartfelt TikTok video, Zuchu shared how her mother went to great lengths to ensure she had a connection with her father, but her efforts proved futile.
“The things my mum did for my dad, I wouldn’t have given him a child. My mum used to force my father to be close to me. She would even say, ‘Zuhura is here; talk to her,’ but my dad does not have an interest. She tried so hard, but he just didn’t want me,” Zuchu disclosed.
According to the singer, her father, who is now remarried, chose to prioritize his new family over maintaining a bond with her. “I always wanted to have a relationship with him. I knew where his house was, but he had a wife and other kids. That other side was more important at the time,” she explained. Zuchu noted that despite this, her mother never restricted her from reaching out to him or being part of his life.
Khadija Kopa, a celebrated artist in her own right, also opened up about her personal life in an interview with Wasafi FM in March 2024. She discussed the challenges she faces in finding a mature partner, expressing her disinterest in younger men. “I’ve seen younger men, but I don’t want boys. God has not granted me the will to find a man who is mature,” she stated.
She further elaborated, saying, “I tell them they’re kids, and they don’t deserve me. I tell them to go look for younger women. I don’t have time for that.” Despite her candid remarks, Khadija remains optimistic about her personal life while continuing to focus on her illustrious career.
Khadija has faced significant personal losses over the years. Her late husband, Jaffary Ally, who was not Zuchu’s biological father, passed away in 2013 after a brief illness in Bagamoyo. Khadija frequently honors his memory during her performances, reminiscing about his love and unwavering support. Tragically, she also lost her only son, Omar Kopa, a gifted Taarab artist, a few years ago. The pain of these losses has only deepened her resolve to cherish the people around her and continue building her legacy.
Despite the challenges she has faced, Khadija Kopa remains a household name and an enduring figure in Tanzanian music. Zuchu, too, continues to thrive in her musical career, proving that perseverance and talent can overcome even the most difficult personal trials. Interestingly, Khadija is currently in a relationship with her boss, a partnership that has spanned over two years, further highlighting her determination to live life on her terms.
The mother-daughter duo’s experiences reflect their resilience and strength, serving as an inspiration to many fans and followers. Through their honesty and artistry, both Zuchu and Khadija Kopa continue to leave a lasting impact on the music world and beyond.
