A Kenyan man’s report of his wife’s disappearance, followed by a ransom demand, has sparked public attention after it was revealed that she was found living with another man. Brian Andole reported his wife, Mercy, missing on November 9th, telling the police that she had disappeared from their home in Nairobi and had been abducted. He also claimed a ransom demand had been made for her safe return.
However, police investigations led to the discovery that Mercy had been living in Narok with George, a man she identified as her true husband. George revealed that he had undergone customary marriage rites with Mercy, paying dowry, before she moved to Nairobi and became engaged to Andole.
According to the Director of Criminal Investigations (DCI), George has two children with Mercy, and they have been living together in Oldonyo Orok, Narok County. Mercy admitted that she left her relationship with Andole and chose to return to her village. She denied being kidnapped, stating that she ended her relationship with Andole voluntarily. Mercy and her friend, who allegedly used a phone to demand the ransom, were arrested by the police.
This situation raises the question of whether polyandry—a practice where a woman has multiple husbands—applies in this case. Polyandry is recognized in some cultures and can take different forms, including fraternal, associated, and successional polyandry. While polyandry is practiced in regions like India, China, Nepal, and parts of Kenya, it is not explicitly outlawed in Kenya. Although rare, there have been reports of polyandry in Kenya, such as a case in Makueni in 2018 where a woman lived with two men.
In this case, while not a typical example of polyandry, the situation has reignited discussions about the practice of women having multiple husbands, especially in cultures where it is still customary.
