NICK NDENDA REVEALS WHY HE KEEPS HIS KIDS PRIVATE

City Lawyer Nick Ndeda shared little known details about relationship with Betty Kyallo, revealing they were coaxed to go public.⁣
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In an Interview on Jalang’o TV, Ndeda said they had planned to keep thing under wraps but that changed after their photos were leaked to the public through blogger Edgar Obare.⁣
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“We had agreed that we never wanted to go public, we knew that there will be rumours and the what not because we are seen together here and there…which is fine.⁣
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Like any other couple we would do things together, go out, have dinner, lunch, shopping and all that but we never wanted to come out and say we are an item. It was never our intention to do that, so when that happened, we did not change how we interacted or what we did, we just carried on, except that once that spotlight starts shinning on you it kinda never stops,” said Nick in part.⁣
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He added that Kenyans ambushed them even before they were ready to subject their relationship to public scrutiny.⁣
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“At some point we got the normalcy back and we could go somewhere and someone just says Hi Betty and life moves. But at the time we were outed, coz we were not ready for that and I think its because I’m not a celebrity… relationship take time to grow to a point that you are now okay with the public but Kenyans won’t give relationships time to evolve through the normal stages of a relationship,” said Nick Ndeda.⁣
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He went on to advise that it’s important to know each other well before any relationship goes public.⁣
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“You won’t meet somebody today, hang out a few times and a few days after you have gone public, you are still in that stage where you are still knowing each other, it might work or not. So you need as much time as possible as you navigate that preliminary stage, but Betty and I never got that and I think most celebrities don’t get it,” Nick said.⁣