Hannah Benta Defends Dating Married Men

TikToker Hannah Benta Sparks Debate Over Her Preference for Married Men

TikToker Hannah Benta has ignited a heated debate on social media after boldly declaring that she has no issue being a second wife and has exclusively dated married men throughout her romantic life.

During an interview with Morin, Benta opened up about her dating experiences, revealing that her first serious relationship lasted three years and was with a married man. She described it as an incredibly fulfilling and rewarding experience, stating,

“I have always dated married men. My first love lasted for three years, and it was with a married man. It was the best. I was given the best life ever.”

Despite her preference for relationships with married men, Benta emphasized that she draws the line when it comes to how a man treats his wife. She firmly stated that she does not condone disrespect toward a wife, as she believes that a man who disrespects his wife could easily do the same to her.

“If I am dating a married man and you disrespect your wife, I walk away. This is because the same way you disrespected your wife is how you will disrespect me because of another woman.”

Would She Accept Marriage from a Married Man?

When asked whether she would be open to marrying a man who is already in a committed marriage, Benta did not hesitate to affirm her stance. She confidently declared that she would have no problem accepting such a proposal.

“If he marries me, I am OK, I do not mind.”

Her willingness to be in a polygamous marriage has further fueled discussions about modern relationships, fidelity, and the evolving perceptions of marriage in society.

Her Views on Infidelity and Women’s Responsibility

Benta went on to share controversial opinions on why men cheat, claiming that women play a significant role in pushing their partners to be unfaithful. According to her, many women neglect their efforts in maintaining their appearance and keeping their relationships exciting, which ultimately drives men to seek affection elsewhere.

“We, as women, are the ones who push men to cheat on us 90% of the time. A man comes to the house, finds you rocking stockings, and sees that you are not making an effort to be spicy. Yet when he comes to me, things are different.”

Her remarks sparked a wave of reactions from netizens, with many criticizing her views and others offering counterarguments on infidelity, commitment, and marriage.

Social Media Reactions

Benta’s statements have drawn mixed reactions from social media users, with many expressing their opinions on her stance. Some accused her of being a homewrecker, while others advised her to reconsider her outlook on relationships and marriage.

Here are some of the comments from netizens:

• Anderson Muriithi: “She is the reason why the men she dates leave their wives. She has become a walking alter.”
• Felister Wamae: “She should give her life to Jesus. He will solve all her problems.”
• Micky Saajy: “And she thinks it’s an achievement.”
• Brian Sande Lusichi: “Dear ladies, don’t waste your time and energy chasing married men. Remember, women grow old faster than men. Use your youth to find someone who truly loves you, build a life together, bear children, and grow with them.”
• Charlie Ezekiel: “That’s a person who doesn’t have anything to lose and is out to cause damage to families.”
• Faith Musembi: “Better to be a side chick to a married man than be loyal to a cheating husband. Dating married men is sweet, but not from experience.”
• Lynett Brenda: “You are being tormented by the alter of divorce! Pray for deliverance so you can get married with respect.”
• Malo Benjitto: “And when she gets pregnant and is abandoned, she’ll start saying ‘real men’ should marry single mothers. Or if she marries, she’ll have an issue when her husband has side chicks. The cycle continues.”

Conclusion

Hannah Benta’s comments have ignited a larger conversation about relationships, fidelity, and personal values. While some support her views on polygamy and non-traditional relationships, many have criticized her stance, arguing that it encourages infidelity and disrupts marriages.

Her remarks have certainly added to the ongoing debate about modern relationships and the choices individuals make in the pursuit of love and happiness.